| In my work with clients, I take into account
the myriad influences that make us who we are - our biology,
psychology, social environment, current situation and history.
Together we talk about the different influences, study them,
try to understand them and work towards changing the things
the client would like to change. The purpose of the collaboration
between the client and therapist is to assist the client in
achieving his or her goals. My task is to listen and respond
in a way that is unique to the client. I am flexible and eclectic
in my work with clients.
What is psychotherapy and how it works?
In treatment, the client is encouraged to
say everything and to talk as openly as possible. Saying everything
in this nonjudgmental, accepting environment opens the door
to change. We discover new things about ourselves. We have
new thoughts, which leads to an ability to take new actions.
This allows us to be released from repetitive, compulsive
and destructive behaviors, relationships and patterns. We
are then able to create productive, creative ways of being
in the world.
Working with Addictive Behaviors
Psychotherapy is helpful to those in 12 step programs who contend with life challenges in abstinence. For those who do not attend these programs, ‘harm reduction’ is an incremental approach to a healthier lifestyle at a pace that is acceptable and manageable. The focus is on reducing the harm the addictive behavior inflicts on a person’s relationships, health, work, life goals and general functioning. Addictive problems are not only to substances and may focus on food, sex, work, games and gambling.
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